Session 1 Healing From Trust Issues

Your Host: Shyra DeJuan (ShyTheHealer)
Heal from trust issues, shift your mindset using the power of TRUST!
TRUST yourself and your confidence will naturally grow! Many great successful humans have a trustworthy team! They learn the power of trusting their own instincts to attract other trustworthy and like minded people. This power of trust creates compassion, respect, prosperity, health and wealth!  Elevate your mind, be open to health and wealth. Trust the healing ❤️‍🩹 process, sometimes healing hurts, but when completely healed you become a stronger, wiser & amazing human! In this session, Learn the importance of healing from trauma that causes trust issues. Stop using trust issues as an unhealthy defense mechanism! We are champions! We heal together! We win together!

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Um, All smiles champions. Welcome to mind, elevation health and wealth. My name is I'm an emotional healer, educator and entrepreneur. Each week, we will dig deep into emotionally healing, all aspects of your life to increase your ability to create prosperity. There are times when you feel a mental block, you experience a feeling of being stuck, where you are, you know, you have a winning spirit deep down inside of you, and now is the time to unlock it. Mind elevation, health and wealth. Allows you to elevate and shift into a growth mindset field with great health and abundant wealth. At this moment, I'm giving you permission to fulfill all of the unique desires of your heart. Judgment-free shame-free guilt-free elements to heal your mind and body as you listen. And consume the words of this session. Nourishing soul enriching relationships will be drawn closer to your heart. Draining toxic relationships will be drawn out of your life. With no fear of loss champions, embrace unconditional love and keep listening. Healing is health. Health is wealth. You are here on purpose. Session one healing from trust issues. Listen and listen, well, champions. Whether you have faith in God, faith in the universe or faith in self lacking in self-trust causes you to lose faith. Trust issues, prevent us from building healthy relationships in all areas. Uh, Family romantic work. And business relationships, trust issues, cost friction and parenting friction and marriages, friction, and your career failures and your business. For example, being a toxic friend, attracts other toxic friends. Your homeboy pretends to be your alibi when you cheat. Your home girl. We'll be your getaway driver when you flattened tires. Toxicity is toxicity. I'll admit. I've had toxic friendships in my younger days. But the truth is. Con artist attract other con artist. We see this with prison inmates. Most of the prison inmates that are locked up for scamming Connie. Embezzlement or fried. They could have been successful entrepreneurs. If they would have channeled their talents legally in a trustworthy, legal manner. But the fact remains the untrustworthy humans attract. Untrustworthy humans. So if you're acknowledging that you have trust issues, you must work towards being trustworthy. Untrustworthy people are still willing to act and treat others as if they're guilty of not being trusted. They struggle with healing from the past traumatic experiences causing their trust issues. So let's reflect on childhood trauma that could have caused your trust issues. There may be still situations laying dormant and your subconscious mind that you still need to heal from. Uh, Some causes are. Past abuse. Being social really checked it. Or bully. Being lied to by your parents or other adults. Witnessing your parents cheating. Being forced to lie, to protect other family members, being abused by someone that your family trusted. Being betrayed by a childhood friend, being cheated on being a part of a toxic friend group being in a toxic work environment. If I didn't hit your trauma, I'm sure you thought about, or know why you may have, or used to have trust issues. If you can relate in any way. Smile big and repeat this phrase out loud or in your head. Trust issues are unhealthy defense mechanisms that can cause you to create false beliefs. Okay, I'm gonna give you some examples in a moment. Some signs that you have trusted you are. You avoid commitment out of fear. You have shallow. Not meaningful, but shallow relationships. You struggle to believe others, even if they not even lie, they might be telling the truth, but you still want to find a reason not to believe them. You always expect the worst in every situation. And you may be that person that's distance from others. So I'm going to, I'm going to walk down some streets. You have. Open access to your significant other cell phone, but you are still trying to find something wrong. Truthfully, you have an amazing honest person, but you can't embrace or accept their value because you've created a false narrative that this person is just a little more sneakier than your ex that cheated on you. Your trust issues force you to find old messages that happened before y'all even met. You call your toxic friend and create unnecessary friction. Or. You left your old job because there was a scandal and now your new job, you're afraid to create healthy work relationships because you're questioning everyone's character. When truthfully you have an amazing new work crew, but you've created a false narrative that everyone is a fraud and that the generally positive people are faking. They can't be real. Those are trust issues. Hey, you. The champion for life changes. I'm challenging you to be free from the past trauma. So you can begin attracting trustworthy relationships, allowing you to create a Bundance and wealth. Now let's focus on real life, examples I'm system. Some of you still skeptical about being open to trust. Being self-made is a myth. Stop it. No, one's self made. Everyone needs help. Thinking. Think of successful humans that have legally excelled in their career or business, they trusted a team to get them there. Jay Z. And Beyonce entertainment entrepreneurs. They have trustworthy teams. They trusted other musical geniuses to help create billions at music, writing, producing choreography, brand creation and business deals. Bill gates and Steve jobs. Tech entrepreneurs. They trusted people that were technologically smarter than them. To build empires of software technology and product brand loyalty for wealth. Tyler Perry and Oprah Winfrey cinema production entrepreneurs, building an empire as a partnership with an amazing production team worth billions. Think of some positive people in your life that are flourishing financially and legally with a trustworthy dream team. You have been thinking it's okay to be running that business all by yourself because you don't trust anyone else to do anything right now. You stressed out, worn out, burnt out and struggling with the decision to keep your business going because you don't trust anyone to be good enough to help you. If businesses were meant to be run alone. There wouldn't even be a need for HR department. You may not have realized that your self-trust and your trust issues have been holding you back from expanding your business. Accomplishing your goals stopped you from taking a responsible risk, prevented you from accepting genuinely help from a potential business partner. Partner. That micro-managing boss is a supervisor with trust issues. We've all had a manager that treated the whole crew as if everyone is lazy causing a toxic work environment. Trust issues will even prevent you from having a successful romantic relationship. We see it all the time. Relationships will not work. If you treat every person you date is if they were your ex that cheated on you. All men are not dogs. Oh. Women are not gold diggers. Everyone is not trying to set you up or cheat on you or mistreat you or abuse you. Stop believing those lies that you've been told by your toxic family members. If we all heal together, we'll be real together. D hypnotize yourself from those false beliefs. You have the ability to be trustworthy and you have the capacity to attract others that are trustworthy. Start by healing from your negative trust issues. If you're in a leadership role. Start by meeting individually with your employees, hear them, see them, give them a voice. They really are not lazy. Trust starts with compassionate leadership. But for some reason, that's so hard for leaders to do. If you're a business owner, start by seeking a mentor of an extremely successful business. There really aren't they really aren't trying to compete with you. They're there to help. Y'all can boost each other. If you're starting a new career or a new job. Feel comfortable asking questions and receiving help from the smartest person in the new department. Intelligent people love sharing knowledge. Trust yourself to open more doors of prosperity and opportunity by releasing the chains of trust issues. Okay, champs. I'm still assistant syncing. That some of you are still in denial about the benefits of releasing your trust issues. So if you don't trust me, I'm going to allow you to trust. Yana Vanzant. We all know her. And she has a book that she titled until today. It's a daily devotionals. She writes these words of truth. I was going to try to do her voice, but I don't know if I can do that. I'm gonna try it anyways. Trust is a simple process loves now I'm not doing that, but anyways, she says, trust is a simple process. Either you trust or you don't trust you either trust yourself or you don't trust yourself. When you don't trust yourself, you will not trust other people. When you do not trust other people, you can not trust the process of living or loving and which other people are involved. When you don't trust, loving other people, you can not live openly or fully. We are not open to living fully. It means that you expect to be hurt. This expectation makes you constantly afraid that you can't handle the pain. When you don't believe you can handle something, it means you don't trust yourself. This is exactly where we started. Until today, you may have believed that trust was something you learned to do in response to your experiences. Or that you learn not to trust as a result of your experiences, consider and reflect on the beliefs you hold and decisions you have made about trusting yourself. Be devoted to develop a deeper level of self trust. Yana Vincent. It's one of the first. Role models for healing. Our people. Y'all loved the episode that she had with BMX. That was one of my favorite Yana visit episodes. But her daily devotion book until today was gifted to me from a dear friend and it hits my soul differently every year as I grow and heal spiritually, pick it up. That's the beauty of mind elevation. You are now a champion for healing and change for quick recaps of clarification and understanding. Listen and listen. Recap one. Get over past trauma or past negative experiences. Trust yourself. Every situation you face, you will win. Trust your parents is never too late to heal with them together. Make that phone call start healing. Your parent relationship. Trust your children again, they were young when they made the mistakes that they made. Give them a chance as teenagers, right? Give them a chance as adults to regain your trust. Trust your significant other again now. If you're in a relationship and your significant other hasn't done anything wrong. Trust them. Until they do something. They may not, you probably have a great person. If you can't get over the trust issues from being hurt by your current significant other. Do yourself and them a favor. And freedom by ending the relationship. A foundational relationship cannot be built and can not be sturdy. If there's trust issues. Trust the people you lead, they deserve to be treated fairly. Trust someone to be your mentor or be an assistant. You need help starting or running that business. Recap to. Acknowledge that having negative feelings and trust issues. And family relationships, new romantic relationships, or in work relationships, create trauma, bonds, and unhealthy environments, and cause you to create false narrative. It causes pain to innocent people that don't deserve it. You don't even deserve that type of relationship. Everyone deserves the right to be treated fairly. They are not guilty of something that someone else. Did to you and your past, most people are amazing trustworthy people. Which brings us to recap three. D hypnotize yourself from false beliefs, such as. I don't have friends because I can't trust people. All men are dogs. All women are gold diggers. Most people are liars, scammers, and fake. People at work are lazy. The main false belief I'm self-made. And if I want something done I have to do it myself. These are lies. You've been hipped, not hypnotized to believe those lies. These lies keep you emotionally involved with your trust issues and you will keep attracting and creating false narratives of others. Recap for shift your mindset, using the power of trust. Trust yourself. And your confidence will naturally grow. Many great successful humans have a trustworthy team. They learn the power of trusting their own instincts to attract other trustworthy and like-minded people. So their circle grows full of trust. Their business grows full of trust. They are successful and honorable and healthy because they learned the power of self-trust and the power of trusting others. This power of trust creates compassion. Respect. Prosperity. Health and wealth. In closing. Elevate your mind. To be open to health and wealth trust the healing process. Sometimes healing hurts. Acknowledging your faults hurt. But when completely healed, you become a stronger, wiser and amazing human. I know from experience. That was heavy. So let's relax and breathe. Breathe in love. Breathe out. Love. Breathe in trust. Breathe out trust. Embrace love. Share love. Now, share this podcast to help someone you love heal from trust issues. We are champions. We win together. Let's continue to connect. I've done all the talking, but don't forget. I'm also a great listener. So after listening to this session, you can release, respond, reflect, or open up and acknowledge your struggles. Let's start the healing process together. Record your voice. Or record a video and D M at to my Instagram at shy, the healer that's shy. S H Y T H E healer, H E a L E R. All one word. I will try to respond to all voice recordings and videos only, but if you want to write something. Write a review our comment and share this podcast. Please support by downloading and sharing this episode and subscribing to this podcast.